I am a frequently grumpy introvert and most of the time I don't focus on the big issues. I know they are there, but usually the small things are plenty big enough for me to cope (or not cope) with. Essentially I am a watcher and a listener rather than a doer.
I give what I can to carefully selected charities and volunteer with Lifeline and provide peer support to other people with the dread disease. A drop in the proverbial bucket - but every ocean starts with a drop.
However in the last little while two big issues have been nagging at me. Loudly. And insistently.
Suicide numbers here in Australia are rising again. And suicide is almost certainly always under rather than over reported. Not all suicide can or even should be prevented. Suicide as a permanent solution to a temporary problem? A very different issue. I firmly believe that everyone who rings the crisis line with thoughts of suicide is at least ambivalent about their wish to die. They want the pain to stop, and can perhaps think of no other way, but death is not their only option. And I, and all the other volunteers will work on that ambivalence and do our best to help them develop a way to stay safe. For the moment at least, until they can get to some other help...
My local lifeline centre has started a campaign with the aim of raising $1 million by November this year. The link takes you to a short video. We receive some Government funding but are largely self funded. Training is an expensive and on going expense. I don't donate money (directly) to Lifeline though I suppose that donating and purchasing books from the book fairs counts. And I don't think I will give money this time either. I don't even feel very guilty. Lifeline gets its pound of flesh from me. And I will be there for most of today supervising and supporting fledgling counsellors first days on the phone.
The next issue is bigger. And I haven't properly resolved it in my head or heart yet. My country's treatment of asylum seekers horrifies me, angers me and shames me. Over 90% of those whose claims have been assessed have been found to be escaping from genuine persecution and danger. And successive Governments have bad mouthed them as 'queue jumpers' and potential terrorists, and built them up to be a threat to our well being and safety. And now we physically and mentally torture them, and no longer guarantee their physical safety. And deny them any prospect of EVER being accepted and housed here. And are doing our level best to have them homed somewhere, anywhere else. Without regard to their safety or dignity.
Who of us wouldn't take any means which presented themselves to ensure our families safety from persecution? And no, I wouldn't join a queue (even if one existed), if the mere act of joining that queue would endanger my life and that of my extended family.
I have happily signed petitions and marched. And recently another option landed in my in box. Which is where my quandary comes from.
Julian Burnside, a barrister and human rights advocate has called on the community to show those people in detention centres that we recognise their humanity, and that we do care. In this link he asks that we write to an asylum seeker on Nauru or Manus Island, telling them a little about ourselves and to let them know that they are not forgotten and that we care. And to enclose a stamped and self-addressed envelope so that they can reply.
One of the things which has made me so angry about our treatment of asylum seekers is the way we have dehumanised them. Julian Burnside's suggestion is a step in the right direction. It doesn't and can't of itself change the policies I object to, but it does show that people care. It is a relatively simple way for me to 'put my money where my mouth is'. But I don't know what to say, and I frequently feel over committed now and am reluctant to commit myself to an ongoing relationship. So, from being angry and ashamed at my government I have moved on to being angry and ashamed at myself as well. More thinking to do. Quite a lot more thinking to do...
I give what I can to carefully selected charities and volunteer with Lifeline and provide peer support to other people with the dread disease. A drop in the proverbial bucket - but every ocean starts with a drop.
However in the last little while two big issues have been nagging at me. Loudly. And insistently.
Suicide numbers here in Australia are rising again. And suicide is almost certainly always under rather than over reported. Not all suicide can or even should be prevented. Suicide as a permanent solution to a temporary problem? A very different issue. I firmly believe that everyone who rings the crisis line with thoughts of suicide is at least ambivalent about their wish to die. They want the pain to stop, and can perhaps think of no other way, but death is not their only option. And I, and all the other volunteers will work on that ambivalence and do our best to help them develop a way to stay safe. For the moment at least, until they can get to some other help...
My local lifeline centre has started a campaign with the aim of raising $1 million by November this year. The link takes you to a short video. We receive some Government funding but are largely self funded. Training is an expensive and on going expense. I don't donate money (directly) to Lifeline though I suppose that donating and purchasing books from the book fairs counts. And I don't think I will give money this time either. I don't even feel very guilty. Lifeline gets its pound of flesh from me. And I will be there for most of today supervising and supporting fledgling counsellors first days on the phone.
The next issue is bigger. And I haven't properly resolved it in my head or heart yet. My country's treatment of asylum seekers horrifies me, angers me and shames me. Over 90% of those whose claims have been assessed have been found to be escaping from genuine persecution and danger. And successive Governments have bad mouthed them as 'queue jumpers' and potential terrorists, and built them up to be a threat to our well being and safety. And now we physically and mentally torture them, and no longer guarantee their physical safety. And deny them any prospect of EVER being accepted and housed here. And are doing our level best to have them homed somewhere, anywhere else. Without regard to their safety or dignity.
Who of us wouldn't take any means which presented themselves to ensure our families safety from persecution? And no, I wouldn't join a queue (even if one existed), if the mere act of joining that queue would endanger my life and that of my extended family.
I have happily signed petitions and marched. And recently another option landed in my in box. Which is where my quandary comes from.
Julian Burnside, a barrister and human rights advocate has called on the community to show those people in detention centres that we recognise their humanity, and that we do care. In this link he asks that we write to an asylum seeker on Nauru or Manus Island, telling them a little about ourselves and to let them know that they are not forgotten and that we care. And to enclose a stamped and self-addressed envelope so that they can reply.
One of the things which has made me so angry about our treatment of asylum seekers is the way we have dehumanised them. Julian Burnside's suggestion is a step in the right direction. It doesn't and can't of itself change the policies I object to, but it does show that people care. It is a relatively simple way for me to 'put my money where my mouth is'. But I don't know what to say, and I frequently feel over committed now and am reluctant to commit myself to an ongoing relationship. So, from being angry and ashamed at my government I have moved on to being angry and ashamed at myself as well. More thinking to do. Quite a lot more thinking to do...
